Thank you for all your support and encouragement with my very first Blog yesterday,
l really do appreciate it.
I wasn't going to Blog today but then a very BF (best friend) of mine and l were just having a chat via text message and l realised that l have learnt a big lesson in the last few days so l thought that l would just quickly share it with you.
Sometimes l meet people (Rick my Hubby does this too) and there is something about them that we just 'dislike'.
They tick you off in not a nice way (sorry trying to keep it a clean blogg with no swearing...)
They just push your buttons, is another way of explaining it.
Have you ever experienced this? I'm sure if we are all honest with ourselves we have all meet those people that we just 'dislike' but we dont really know why?
Anyway, this happened to Rick lately, he meet this Guy and he just 'disliked' him straight away, but he couldn't explain why. Rick has had this resistant towards this Guy for a few weeks now and he just keeps saying 'there is something about that bloke that l don't like, l don't know what it is, l just don't like him'.
Anyway the other day l figured out what it 'was' that he 'dislikes' about this Guy and upon presenting my realisation to Rick he agreed with ME that that is what it 'was'.
This guy is very Cocky and very Confident within himself and he will happily acknowledge to you that he is Cocky and Confident and that Cocky Confidence just sent Rick of the rictascale because he could see in this Guy something that he wasn't BUT wished that he was.
So we acknowledge that and moved forward....
And then,
I started noticing that there is certain people that l 'dislike' something about in them too but l don't really know what it is that l 'dislike' about them....
(I have never hated anyone with spite, don't get ME wrong here, just sometimes l come across some people that l just cant quite figure out what it is about them that ticks ME off, again l'm sure you can all resinate with ME on this one)
Anyway I have figured out that these people that l tend to 'dislike' something about are normally people that are happy, confident, comfortable within themselves and there own body. They also appear to have a sense of control over there life and the definitely know what they want to do with their life.
So what is actually happening to ME when l experience this feeling of 'disliking' someone?
That's were l have come to my BIG lesson that l have learnt.
It is that they are actually shinning in areas were l feel that l am lacking.
They are mirroring back to ME all the things that l wish l was BUT Im not, is another way of explaining it.
So in fact, its not actually anything about the other person that l 'dislike' its just that l actually wish l was more like them.
So for example l wish that l was more confident within myself, more comfortable with my body, more happier on a daily basis and the list goes on and on.
I think you get my point.....
So there you go, that's my lesson that l have learnt, which hence the title of my Blog 'Shazza's Journey to Now' just means to ME that l am now one step closer to where ever it is that l am going compared to where ever l was yesterday.....
And of course I've got some inner healing to do to learn to LOVE myself some more that's all!!
P.S Don't mix up that GUT feeling you get when you meet someone and you just know that there is something BAD about them. That Gut feeling is there to protect you for a very good reason. Lets be honest, unfortunately not everyone in this world today is kind and loving as we are.
(If l have confused you in anyway or you are seeking more answers to the topic that l have just touched on please feel free to inbox ME personally your questions and l will endeavour to help you how ever l best can)
To lighten things up before l head off to start my daily chores of Mumma land, my beautiful Mum and Dad (more Mum than Dad, sorry Poppy just being honest) has been kind enough to help us out with the kids and has had the 2 big boys Ryan and Sam for asleep over last night (and they had Becky Boo the night before) so l'm guessing any minute now they will grace me with there presence....
Rick is down Geelong way today with a mate picking up Suzuki parts (ha ha speak of the devil and the devil arrives, the kids JUST walked in the door with my Mum)
My dad, John and Rick are going to rebuild Suzuki's in their spare time...lol (who in there right mind with 4 kids has spare time...)
So this morning l was lucky enough to have some time to spend with Rebecca and Bubba Jesse, so here is a couple of pictures with what we got up too....
Til next time, whenever that may be, sending you all a truck load of love
Shazza
xx
P.s The boys never quite got around to collecting their Rocks yesterday so they are back on the ban wagon today, currently outside again in the drizzling rain looking for some! I
t will be interesting to see what they get side tracked doing today.....
Stay tuned for more updates on the Rocks xx
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